- Date Of Birth: April 30, 1929
- Date Of Death: January 1, 2021
- State: California
On January 1, 2021, Graydon Calder passed away at the age of 91. He was an extraordinary, accomplished and loving father, grandfather, and great grandfather that lived a full and rich life. His philosophy in life was to live in such a way that would bring happiness in this life and in the life to come.
Graydon was born in Logan, Utah to Ken and Kay Calder and was a long-time resident of San Diego, having moved here from Logan in 1937. He attended Jefferson Grammar School, Roosevelt Junior High, San Diego High School and San Diego State College. He has always enjoyed sports and while at San Diego High School he broke several local and state records in the high jump.
Graydon met the love of his life, Joan Woods, and they married in 1952.
He served as an officer in the U.S. Air Force from 1952 to 1956. He graduated from Officer Candidate School as number one in his class of 443, receiving both the top academic award and the Distinguished Graduate award.
Graydon helped run the family business, Calder’s Toy and Candy Stores before entering the financial planning business in 1961. This was the beginning of a long and successful career filled with many recognitions and awards. He was one of the early pioneers of the financial planning profession. In 1970 he established the San Diego chapter of the International Association of Financial Planners, the oldest continuing chapter in the United States. He was among the first 42 people in the U.S. to receive the Certified Financial Planner (CFP) designation in 1973. He was honored by his peers as national “CFP of the Year” in 1975 and again in 1982.
In 1973 Graydon formed Financial Planning Consultants, which is San Diego’s oldest financial planning firm. He retired in 1995 and turned his practice over to his son-in-law, Douglas Jarman, CFP.
Graydon had many talents and hobbies that brought him, and all who knew him, great joy. He had a passion for videography and storytelling. All of the special moments in his life and his family’s have been lovingly recorded and made into movie treasures to be watched over and over again.
He was an amazing craftsman and woodworker and shared this talent with many. One year, he handcrafted every Christmas gift for his 5 children and 19 grandchildren. These beautiful, handcrafted wood treasures will be passed on for generations to come.
Graydon was a perfect example of someone who “works hard and plays hard.” He and Joan traveled extensively and he enjoyed sports of every kind.
Graydon created a “Calder” legacy that will inspire generations to come and we as his family all aspire to continue to add to his legacy. In one of his grandson’s words, “I strive to follow Grandpa’s example—To live a life worth reliving.”
Graydon and Joan celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary in 2012 and 6 months later Joan preceded him in death. His sister, Beverly also preceded him in death. He is survived by four daughters, Cathy Jarman, Becky Neuenswander, Cynthia Rose of San Diego, Vicki Parker of Lehi, Utah, one son, Kenneth Calder of Apple Valley, nineteen grandchildren 34 great grandchildren and many extended family members.
