- Date Of Birth: June 28, 1943
- Date Of Death: January 8, 2022
- State: North Carolina
Chapel Hill, North Carolina — Elaine Phyllis Whitney, 78, a longtime resident of River Vale, New Jersey, passed away Saturday, January 8, 2022.
Elaine grew up in Brooklyn, New York where she was known for her boisterous humor, beautiful singing voice, her love of dance, and Broadway musicals. In her teens, she was the director of her high school’s “sing” where she led her fellow students’ performance of Bye, Bye Birdie.
Her New Utrecht High School yearbook proclaimed Elaine “class clown.”
She then went on to earn her bachelor’s degree from Brooklyn College and started her career as a substitute teacher in Brooklyn. Her gifts as a school teacher were evident from the very start.
After two years, she put her teaching career on hold to raise her three rambunctious boys, Craig, Scott, and Paul. They shared many wonderful years as a family living in River Vale, New Jersey. Her boys have many wonderful memories of their mother taking them to little league ball games, swim clubs, ski trips, movies, the local record stores, ice cream shops, Van San Park, and, of course, diners.
As her children became more independent, Elaine returned to teaching, earning her master’s degree in special education, and ultimately becoming one of the top-ranked special education teachers for the City of New York.
When Elaine’s teaching career came to a close, she moved to West Milford to be near her son, Paul. It was here that her dementia began to slowly take hold, and she required more care and attention. Elaine then moved to North Carolina, where she spent the rest of her days living near her son, Scott.
Elaine is survived by her three children Craig, Scott, and Paul Whitney, their spouses Elaine, Marney, and Dana, her grandchildren Hannah, Rhys, Shayna, Benjamin, Jack, and Luke, her sister Natalie Rubinstein and brother-in-law Allan. She is predeceased by her mother and father, Irving and Pauline Rosenberg.
