- Date Of Birth: February 8, 1944
- Date Of Death: September 13, 2020
- State: Connecticut
Jaffe, Bruce Norman: died on 13 September, at the age of 76. Well-known and loved as an inspiring educator, coach and lay clergyman, he made the most of a life quietly compromised by a chronic illness that was unknown to most.
Bruce was the son of a loosely observant Jewish father and a staunch Methodist mother in Easton. He was a member of Joel Barlow High School’s second graduating class. He attended Yale University (Class of 1966) during some of its most turbulent years, where he majored in history and chemistry; there he also underwent training in the ROTC. Of his Vietnam-era time in the US Navy, he would say, “I served on the dangerous waters off Norwalk”.
Following a medical discharge, Bruce joined the faculty of Fairfield College Preparatory School, where he taught for a remarkable fifty years. He used his primary discipline, US history, as a tool to develop critical thinking and the use of evidence to support it, often to the discomfort (and dismay) of his students. In this he made a profound and lasting impact on the lives of generations of young men. This relentless endeavor was not without recognition from his peers as well as his students, and exhausted the awards for achievements in the classroom.
Bruce was widely known as the driving force behind the development and success of two Prep athletic programs, soccer and swimming – though he loathed being called “coach”. And he was, literally, a driving force: for years he piloted the “Red Rocket”, the schoolbus that took the teams to competition. As a master strategist, he led the swim team to victory in three state championships. Always a gentleman, he meted out punitive drills for lapses in sportsmanship
– these drew inspired pranks in retaliation. He was selected National High School Coach of the Year for boys’ swimming, and also served several terms on the national rules committee, the governing body of the sport.
Bruce was a man radiant in faith. At Prep, he served as Protestant chaplain, and cooked and served an annual Christmas dinner for the elderly and the annual Martin Luther King Day supper for Merton House.
